Skip New Year’s Resolutions

Why Late Winter Is Better for Intention Setting Than January 1

Kittrina

12/30/20252 min read

A blue happy new year card with the words happy new year
A blue happy new year card with the words happy new year

January 1st asks too much, too soon.

We’re barely back in our bodies. Our nervous systems are still recovering. The season itself is quiet, inward, and slow—and yet we’re expected to make big declarations about who we’re going to be and how our lives will change.

It’s no wonder New Year’s resolutions fall apart.

There is nothing wrong with you if you’ve never stuck to a January resolution. The timing is the problem.

Nature doesn’t reset on January 1. Late winter—what many people recognize intuitively as the turn toward early spring—is when clarity starts to return. The light is slowly increasing. Energy begins to shift. We’re no longer just recovering; we’re listening.

This is why late January is a far better time for intention setting and planning.

By this point, the noise of the holidays has settled. The urgency has faded. You’re more likely to tell the truth about what you want—and what you don’t want to carry forward. Intentions formed here tend to be simpler, steadier, and more sustainable.

Instead of asking:
“What should I fix about myself?”

Late winter invites a different question:
“What actually supports me?”

This shift matters.

When intentions are set too early, they’re often reactive—based on exhaustion, comparison, or pressure. When they’re set after reflection and rest, they come from alignment. They don’t require constant motivation to maintain.

This is why skipping January 1 isn’t avoidance—it’s wisdom.

Late winter is where planning becomes grounded instead of performative. Where you can look honestly at the year behind you, feel where you are now, and plant seeds that make sense for the life you’re actually living.

You don’t need a full blueprint.
You need clarity, space, and a season that supports forward movement—without forcing it.

A More Supportive Way to Plan the Year Ahead

If you want structure without rigidity, and intention without burnout, late January offers the sweet spot.

Seeds of the Year: An Intentional Planning Retreat is a full-day, journal-based retreat designed to meet you here—after reflection, when clarity begins to emerge.

This isn’t about resolutions or hustle. It’s about working in rhythm with the season, revisiting the past year with honesty, grounding into the present, and intentionally choosing how you want the year ahead to feel.

Seeds of the Year: An Intentional Planning Retreat
🗓 Saturday, January 31 | 10:00 AM – 3:30 PM
❄️ Snow date: February 7
📍 beYoutiful Wellness Suites
🍲 Lunch, beverages & snacks included

💫 $88 Members | $111 Non-Members
👉 Advance registration required. Space is limited.

You don’t need to rush the year into shape.
You just need the right moment to plant what’s next.